Showing posts with label emotions. Show all posts
Showing posts with label emotions. Show all posts

Monday, October 3, 2011

Wish Spiderman is our Neighbor! -- Neighbor rant!


I was always in deep doubt writing this hate blog but I just cant move on, the things involving our new neighbour is just out of  limit….
For the last 6 years of staying in the same bdlg, We are the only filipino in the building and everyone is just amazingly wonderful and friendly, we never encountered super duper rude neighbour till this year, our almost 7 years of being a loyal flat holder just ruined by a freak neighbor!

 7 months ago we have a new neighbour that turned out to be an devil in disguise, I don’t want to be totally rude with an old man but he really gets into my nerve and all I want to do is to punch him  straight into his throat with no mercy….! ( goosssshhhhh….. this is hatred writing not wisemummy!!)

And when I say rude,  would define his actions as EVIL by nature,

First and foremost when you are staying in the basement floor or  ground floor, it always comes with the noise,  kids playing, public area for waiting,  getting in and out of the building and sometimes just of the heck of it….,  our EVIL NEW neighbor simply shouted at everyone who make noise, that includes tha innocent kids who’s been in the same building for like 10 years, the LOBBY is the constant place where the kids and the nannies stayed for a play and socialization( would include my kids and nanny on the list) , I remember one time, my  mom took my son from school and from the lobby my son sang a soft song, our neighbor suddenly open his door and shouted at my mom to discipline my son and said to let him stop singing coz he wanted to sleep…… I was like, WHAT the hell is wrong with this devil…!  I think all day long  all he do is to mind other resident passing by the lobby and tell them to keep quite because he wants to sleep……

WHY NOT STAY AT THE ROOFTOP WHERE NO ONE IS ARROUND!!  
I need a miracle for him to understand that he rented a room in the  BASEMENT, GROUND FLOOR, LOBBY… sort of public area!!!!!!!!.......... DUMB..DUMB..DUMB dirty old man!!!!........

I kept my temper and let that things go, 
but again,one weekend,  another new neighbor came in with 3 small kids, the kids are in the lobby playing  with bikes and dollies, my kids joined and I have given them instructions not to make so much noise….

A few minutes later,  the DEVIL get out of his crib doing his usual shouting routine,  forcing all the little kids to go with a bad hand gestures!!...
at that moment,  my husband has taken his action had his very first argument with the evil man….!  it’s a disgrace when he’s trying to give an excuse that is very sick and needs a quite place to rest, added that he is a manager in bebehani company and paying 200KD for the flat and he deserve to be respected by all the people in the building! , (imagine how miserable the lives of his staff, since, he's boasting he is a manager in BEBEHANI COMPANY)
My husband sarcastically laugh at him and said, you boast your  position and your rent, everyone in the bldg deserve to be respected as you are not the only person living in here and we're all paying more than your rent ,  your flat is the cheapest flat in the entire building it’s one bed room flat with partition! For christ sake!!  

and Things started to heat up..

and few days ago, my mom, I mean, the entire family visited us for a dinner,  we have decided to caught a few air coz the aircondition inside is too cold, we open the door a little bit and saw  few people outside busy loading things in the trucks, fixing and dragging lots of stuff, in short, really blast and loud!  ..(in my mind, oh! it's a miracle, the evil is in silent, not been disturbed by the blare just infront of his door-the lobby area) 

an hour later we suddenly heard “BANG” on our door  and saw THE DEVIL hand trying to get into the  gap in between the door  and door lock, trying to push the chair that's temporarily stocked on the door to remain open, we were so shocked and saw the old man on his temper telling us to close the door, he’s complaining with the noise INSIDE our HOUSE... let me repeat that, "THE NOISE INSIDE OUR HOUSE " WHICH CANNOT BE HEARD WHEN YOU ARE METERS AWAY FROM OUR DOOR,  HE IS LIVING 3 DOORS FROM US!!!....... but he was not disturbed by the clattered infront of his door.....
my husband shouted back  asking him why not knock the door or use the doorbell instead of forcing to wrecking our door, he said he already asked permission to the harrish and he can do whatever he wants! (WHAT??!!! does the harrish owned the building????)    At that very moment, I was on my high temper, I ran infront of him and said, you’re a bad person that’s why you’re sick..better for you to DIED!!!....  I was really angry and I cannot control whatever the words I said,  my husband along with my brother in-law went out  and almost hit the evil old man, all the witnesses did not share a piece of sympathy on the old man, everyone just look at him, not even single one of them is trying to get into the middle of comotion, maybe they want to end the show with a strong punch on evil's face.....

he continue to tell evryone that we are bad people and what he did is right.... RIGHT to trespassed one's property, 
normal people call it, TRESPASSING = getting inside our house  with no permission,  HARRISH has no right to give any consent to anyone who wants to get inside someone's flat!!......  we almost went to the police station to report his action but my mom insisted of taking things into consideration because he's old and maybe a disturbed person that needed mental help, I’m just waiting for the right moment and keep on praying that somebody would teach him a lesson.....  

by the way,the building harrish continously apologizing for such event and assured us that evil man will not get into our way again..!
hope so... coz if he continue to be evil then I guess, it's time for the police to take charge,

gosssshhhhhhh...... this is one PERSON almost gives me a heart attack!! and it's been a week of hearbreak and mad dreams, I really just want him to vanish/ out of our sight- if only I have the power to do that!!....  and we can all live in harmony just like the old times..... does anyone experience same bad ass neighbor???!!....

Tuesday, September 27, 2011

My SEPTEMBER SADNESS!!

September 2011,  it’s a bit frustrating and overwhelming  ….. so many things happen this month and all I can share is the memory I will keep for the rest of my LIFE…



September starts with a celebration of EID were every muslim friends and family gathered to celebrate, a long holiday and a time to rest.....  we have a few late night outs but have to spend my last cash wisely as my husband salary is yet to come,  
weeks later,  I was right to have kept my money safe…. 
I don’t have to elaborate my rant against my husband’s company,  it is their decision not to prioritized their employees needs, almost 2 months of no salary I have to cover everything and this is what I fear but still happy to have a wonderful and stable job….

2nd week of September is just a panic atttack we almost run out of anything, I MEAN everything at home….. and the worst is that,  I cannot withdraw money from my bank due to some service reason and end up asking few friends & family a favor…..

3rd week, this includes my sad birthday, I celebrated my tears and joy with my FB friends, I stayed on line for the rest of the day… my mom donated good dinner and drinks for the family to share, end up starving for pizza and cheese cake, hopelessly waiting for the night to end and hoping for a wonderful day tomorrow…… soo sad that all I can do is to cry till I close my eyes to sleep

And this few days,  the final week of this month the hardest of all,   it was never my intention to get in-touch with the person I always want to forget, somehow,  in everyone’s journey, there will be a point in time that we have to face our past in order to laid down the heavy bagage we’ve been bringing for so long….. I met my father “my real father” in facebook,  I’m surprise to see him there , I was not prepared to step into the moment, we have a few exchange of mails and it was so long before I response to his plea of forgiveness ,  yes,, I finally forgiven him and felt so free, I guess, this is what GOD wants me to experience, a sad physical birthday but  freedom from pain, I could not ask for more……

In the end, I decided not to go further with what me and my dad has right now, im not ready and  I never thought of it…… it’s amazing how simple things we thought just a mare hobby or a plain social network site but it makes different when experiences like this happened

Trully, everything happens for a reason in perfect time and place, I’m now, putting every sinlge event into the pocket of my experience, a learning process, a memory that once in my life I found the inner freedom  and forgiveness!!, 

Thank you LORD for keeping me strong and healthy ….. I become wiser and faithful to GOD...keep myself ready for whatever life has to offer…

keeping the faith---->WISEMUMMY SCEAM!!