Had a phone chat with my good friend, an hour ago, basically, the chat is not the typical hello & good bye ….God bless…may the force be with you!! Blas blah.. you know ! not the tupperware , orracan kind of bluff, ( no no no… not for us!!) ..… But it’s a conversation of two young adult perhaps mommies!! Desperate to get an air, I describe it as fun, loud laughs, pain, hearsays and reminiscing...… as I always quote,” I will not be who I am today if not because of my past…”
Bit sad to hear few changes/things in her life (I don’t have to share it here!! It’s too personal) but I guess, being a mother that she is, lead her to be tough and amazingly strong for herself & her family, indeed, I was really impress how she handle it well and how love survive distance and loneliness…..!
Two things, I’ve learned:
THE BASIC: FAMILY & MOTHER!!...
1.) Family is the basic unit of society; it is the foundation of who we are and what the hell is wrong with you kind of thing!!! – “ Family “ are the very people who knows you well, hurt you because they want you to learn, comfort you when you don’t listen, laugh at your “ not so funny jokes “ , walks with you in circle of life and loves you unconditionally even if you fart so loud in front of them!! Friend’s maybe forever but Family is just everlasting! (That’s how strong she built her family’s foundation! - there you go sis!!))
2.) Mother is the best & hardest job in the world, it takes extensive time to appreciate their job, advises and existence, when we were young we don’t really understand their importance and the part of share they shed in our lives, we often think that they intrude so much that we almost felt like they’re living our lives, they asked nothing but appreciation , hugs & kisses that is hard for us to give
Now that I’m a MOTHER, I realize my karma is myself, and then, I knew how hard it is to be mom and how wonderful it is to be child with a mom like my MOM……
I MISS YOU MOM!
AND
Damn! Miss you SIS! Soooo glad to hear your super duper pathetic, craziness, extreme, loud, scary voice….! Be strong and everything happens for a reason.. So go on...
Commit suicide wwould take all the pain away! hehehe! Joke!! But Kidding aside,
I envy your strong will to take the hardest decision in life…. I had fun and hope to see you soon!!
