Wednesday, September 26, 2012
Windows of Personality
I was in my final years in high school when I got introduced to this 4 windows of personality, I attentively listen to the speaker as he explained each of the personality, Indeed, it became sort of my “GUIDE” be modest and sensitive on my actions and others,
Here’s an illustration of what I am referring,
it is called JOHARI windows of personality, I know many of my readers already knew about this but for the benefits of those who are new, it is like discovering “YOU” what you know about yourself, what other’s know about you, what other’s know about you that you don’t know and what you will discover about yourself...
There are few personalities by which I observed common to some “MODERN” people, it sometimes irritate me but most of the time I pitied them,
1. The Wrong Achiever
These are the type of people who yearn to achieve certain status not to satisfy themselves but others, they worked hard to satisfy one's happiness, it’s very hard to intervene with this kind of people simply because they do not know that they already trap in the situation but they continue to work without question just to please somebody...
Wisemummy shout! : it’s a good attitude to help and achieve but you should ask yourself, till when?? Is it worth it??
2. The Social Climber
Well, it’s literal!!... these people likes anything expensive, luxury and anything that defines glamour regardless of their actual status in society, they work hard to earn that glamour status, they seek attention to cover their unwanted reality, they love fame, they love people to envy them, they live up to the high level society even if it takes a months of eating only a tomato on their breakfast,lunch and dinner just to buy the latest gad…
Wisemummy Shout!: I can only pray for those who cannot see what really is the real happiness!! Richness does not define by expensive clothes nor latest gadgets.. it is by one’s satisfaction to life in long term basis….
3. The Stabbers
I have been friends with the stabbers before and I should say, it’s like a disease you’ll never know it’s already in you when you are with them, these people usually overjoyed by gossiping and judging other people, there whole life centered to what they hear and what they see, it can even lead to damage one's reputation and dignity… yet sometimes I noticed myself commenting bad things about others and I have no resistance when I am with them..
Wisemummy Shout!: yeah yeah…. Gossiping is addiction, you get to hear and speak about people either good or bad…! Betta stop it before you are the center of the gossip…!
4. The Over and wrong Confidence
Parents ..it’s ok to praise your kids but with honestly and love, I have met people who are oooooooooooozing with so much confidence, I thought it is something he/she adapted from his collegues or friends but as I knew them well and deep, I discover that, it comes from their parents, PARENTS who praises their kids exaggeratedly, that KIDS as they grew up they install such kind of wrong confidence in all aspect of their lives, they say, I’m very good with this and I’m basically an expert with that but they really don’t have that talent but they see themselves as great, and they don’t accept failures and wrong!!
Wisemummy Shout!: you love your kids right??! Then love them real, let them experience the reality of life, don’t feed them the wrong confidence for they will live alone in the world the evolves failures and acceptance
The thing is, we all have this blind side in our windows of personality, we don’t know but others clearly see it in us, it sometimes hard to accept, we can always ignore what others is telling us or we can observe it quietly and slowly get into the process of change,
Change is the only constant in this world, I’m not in the right position to say that what I see in you is wrong, for we all have our sets of expectations and personalities, my point is, if we truly love ourselves then get to know “YOU” than overlook what is over or missing in you, to appreciate the real beauty and richness of life, it always start in YOU and how you prepare yourself and your family in the future with the best and proper self-equipment you can install...
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Tuesday, September 25, 2012
Start Healthy Today..
After a long holiday, I started to gain not just few but lots of pounds on my weight, but I did not feel any depression and anything alike as I know, with proper mind set and discipline, i'll get over with this unwanted visitors in my system....
I saw this ad as I open my mail today, it's quite good actually... remember!!, losing weight is discipline and a lifestyle, start by eating right and healthy food...
Salad creation is just one of good and authentic innovation to try!!... creat your own salad and have it deliver to your door step...
I saw this ad as I open my mail today, it's quite good actually... remember!!, losing weight is discipline and a lifestyle, start by eating right and healthy food...
Salad creation is just one of good and authentic innovation to try!!... creat your own salad and have it deliver to your door step...
have one today and start healthy!
My Parasailing Experience
I still have the hang and the feeling of being lifted with all your heart and internal organs out,
Parasailing is one of the activities in Boracay (I don’t imagine to try), but somehow with great talks and challenge I get into the drama….
Traveling few minutes via speed boat is one of the things I enjoy prior to the parasailing, I love to play with the waves and feel the heat of the sun, and however, as we progress to our destination, I feel a little tension and stress
But, as we get into it, there is the feeling of security and excitement lingering into the back of my mind, I flew and I felt near to the clouds that looks like a bunch of white cotton candies… I super like it!!!
i love it... love it... love it...!! ( is that enough to convince you that I love PARASAILING!! hehehe)...
Our Wedding Thanks...
With just a month of preparation, I was not expecting anything spectacular on my wedding, afterall, we've been married in kuwait for a long time what more to expect?!, I just want to get over with it and deal with the disaster... ( so bad of me isn't it?!)
but God has it plans of lifting my expectations and takes me to where I stand.. Truly with positive people, faith and prayer nothing is impossible.......
our 2nd wedding turned out to be a great experience, a wonderful event and a life time of joy, it's unforgettable....! in short, Simple but a special one...
but God has it plans of lifting my expectations and takes me to where I stand.. Truly with positive people, faith and prayer nothing is impossible.......
our 2nd wedding turned out to be a great experience, a wonderful event and a life time of joy, it's unforgettable....! in short, Simple but a special one...
This is a just our way of giving out to the people behind the success of our simple wedding (disclaimers please give me this moment…! Hehehe)
(…. So glad to meet and know good people who are proactive and voluntarily exerted their efforts to make our wedding journey a wonderful one!…)
1.) our Main Coordinator
Mrs. Efleda Javilles and Family
2.) Host/ Wedding Designer/ Coordinator
Mr. Joel Salonga and the Team
3.) Photo and Video
Leighton Photography
4.) Reception
Grand Menseng Hotel
5.) Gowns
Sheng's Creation
6.) Souvenirs
Soriano n Manzo Family (Kuwait)
7.) Hair and Make- up
G-Style Salon
8.) Church
St. Francis of Asisi
and to our family, friends and everyone who share/ spare their time ,support and give love, it is indeed a great pleasure having you in our wedding day, it is one moment in our lives we shall never forget...
and lastly, To God almighty who is our inspiration and our foundation...!
WOW..Davao
After years of longing to be in Philippines, I finally, shed time to enjoy and explore Davao city, I was in Philippines last month and stayed in my hometown ( Davao City) for two weeks, you understand me when I say, I felt really crazy with so many plans on my head but sooo little time, I was wandering and coping up with the busy schedules, I met great people and explore wonderful places in davao….
I can’t explain my feelings but I’m proud on how progressive Davao is and how well mannered the davaoenos,
Sooooooo!!! People from Kuwait and in the middle east, here’s the deal, if you are looking for a place that is safe, relaxing and fun, then, I would recommend my place…
And please,,, if you happen to be there, don’t forget to enjoy the nature,
Island hopping on samal Island, Jacks ridge, wild river adventure, blue jazz, Philippine Eagle center, the crodile park .......just a few great places to try/visit…
And if you want to enjoy white sand with fabulous amenities, you can enjoy Pearl Farm Resort,
Or tour around the city with no danger at all, but please be aware that smoking is prohibited in the city , keep it in mind and Enjoy!!!
Monday, September 24, 2012
Battle of the Kojic
Prior to my wedding I have tested lots of whitening soap to fade away impurities, rough and dark spots, I tell you it’s not a simple quest..>!
I found brands that I considered to be pure and the result is visible
Merely 5 months in process, tested and documented, I, hereby, recommend the following ( with pride hehehe….)
1.) Kojic San
2.) Bioskin Kojic with Gluta Soap
3.) MAGIC 3 in 1 Kojic Soap
I am not paid to recomend nor advertise the above products, consider it as a free ad for products who exceeded my expectations and I continue to use and discover wonderful products just like the above....
Sunday, September 16, 2012
Coming back to Kuwait
Heylooo Everyone... it's rainy morning in philippines, I totally forgot to drop by prior to my travel last month, I have lots of experiences to share and hope you forgive me for not updating my blog...
Anyway, just droping by to say, I miss you all and I'm coming back to kuwait soon....
Lovelots..
Wisemom....
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