Showing posts with label bad boss. Show all posts
Showing posts with label bad boss. Show all posts

Thursday, April 11, 2013

When to say " ENOUGH is ENOUGH" at Work

Been working for 10 years , 3 years I’ve stayed from the previous company and 7 years in the current one , in my years of working I have encountered  pain, stress, anxiety and lots and lots of discrimination specially in the first year…

Did I give up??  Maybe!! But in so many times I just stayed in my bed alone and crying… 

now let me you something:

There are plenty of people out there with different attitudes and intentions but we all strive for the same reason…. “SALARY & POSITION”   the competition is tough and if you give up then you lose a turn.. but giving up is not define as being weak but it is being strong and standing up for your rights, Work might be an essential toward betterment of our lives and family but it should hindrance nor take us into the level of stress and anxiety…

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I recently saw my sister in a state of depression, I can’t stand seeing her  in tears because her lady boss is a bully and extremely mean, she takes all her problems at home in the office  that it affects her position to be mean to her subordinates which is very unethical, but no one gives a damn dare to bring notice because of her nationality and how she project herself in front of others… that’s how cruel it is!!! 

( You’re so MEAN hospital( D-TECH) lady BOSS and if you don’t know what KARMA is, then wait for it in the right time!!)-- sooo carried away it my emotions right now!! sorry!!

Anyway,  If you feel you are in the situation of letting go but have that 2nd thought of giving up your job just because you needed the fund to sustain your everything then STOP for awhile.. remember , we all have that talent and confidence within, we are created perfect in the eyes of our creator and nothing will hindrance us toward success except our fear, the moment you stop believing and let go of that confidence in you then you have no option to go out from the prison of work stress….

Remember: (obey the following rules)

              1.)    Work without fear
              2.)   Keep yourself intact 
              3.)   Be Friendly
              4.)   Ask if you don’t know
              5.)    Don’t bring your problems at home in the office
              6.)   Help yourself , be a quick learner
              7.)   Respect Authorities
              8.)   Be friendly but always have the line of limitations
              9.)   Always exceed expectations as you work

Conclusion:

         1.)     if you follow the above and still struggle to work every day, with people, work itself and your anxiety level is on rocky road… please let go and find a new job!!!

       2.)   If you follow the above and still your BOSS treats you like a rag, just go and find yourself a better opportunity, Reality check:  Bully Boss Exist and they’re stupid!! and it doesn't mean they’re always on top, our world rounds in cycle and so are we, let go forgive and let time takes it turn….!!

WORK should not be the cause of your depression and health related issues, work as if you are at home and doing the things you love!!!

Have a great day everyone and Don’t forget to pray for guidance!!!