Happy Mom... Happy Household...

Have you ever in a situation where you feel really blank…. I mean, you wanted to write something yet nothing comes into your mind but to stare the blank word file in your PC, I was exactly like that a few minutes ago, it feels really really really dumb, 

I thought, I was having that Alzheimer moment, I can’t figure how to overcome, thankfully the music helps me to relieved, it’s a snap, a blink of a light suddenly energize my brain from its deepest state of sleep… 

Hi Everyone, I’m here, it’s been a while isn’t it?? Been busy lately, Kids are growing up so fast and school requires so many projects very now and then, I was literary coping up with all the schedules and work deadlines, I sometimes feel I’m so powerful by completing all the necessary task with a smile on my face. Being a working mom is commitment that challenge you in a lifetime, making all impossible possible!! That’s how super mom do it!!

So how to keep a balance, well, to tell you honestly,  I never had a training or diploma of being a supermom, it’s a task that takes time to learn, I’m a struggling mom before, 

I have no idea that motherhood is like a total transformation from being happy single, but you know what! , I enjoy every single moment of being a mom, all I can say to all mothers out there, try to find that moment for yourself and take advantage of it, ensure you have that time for yourself  and I’m not  saying that you invest so much to it, but keep it at minimal, we often think that we should focus more of our kids and households placing ourselves at the end of the list. 

While I agreed to have that focus for the family, I would strongly consider having that extra moment for yourself by doing the things you love  and learn new things,  motherhood is not just keeping your household clean and perfect, it requires happiness within,  so next you find yourself out shopping with friends or going to gym for a yoga, please don’t feel guilty it is yours to enjoy!! Happy household is a result of happy mom never forget that!!

Peace out!!

Wisemummy81

Sharing a life in a Message of Sadness

My mom to describe is  like solving a 100 pieces map picture puzzle, she loves to clean, read and talks anything about everything, she is a strong believer of the golden rules "DON'T DO UNTO OTHERS WHAT YOU DON'T WANT OTHERS DO UNTO YOU", growing up is not entirely perfect but such rule has become a part of me all the days of my life.

Going back into the topic, I don’t consider our bond as a supper glue since, I did not grew up with her, but perhaps I would call it an instinct understanding between mom & daughter, My whole childhood and teen memories was filled with so many people who randomly comes and go, I may not understand every corners of my destiny but episode of growing up  is a learning process, a reason to be tough and yearn for better life…

It was only when I graduated college and finally decided to travel abroad I felt I have a family, a mom who truly cares for me, The feeling is unexplainable, there was a doubt, pain and hatred but when I turned the table and see my kids growing up, I fully understand her, I have become the person I am today because of her sacrifices, She gave her life to us even if it takes a gap between us  

I’m writing this because last night upon receiving a call about the sudden death of my friend’s mom I was in pain and helpless as I am miles away not able to be with my friend, there is nothing more painful than seeing your mom lifeless

Mothers are special gift from God, We can always choose a friend but we can never choose our mom, we do not understand them in many ways but somehow in time we realized that what they want is just what’s best for us….

My condolences to the family of my Best friend Vince Misa,  Be strong, I know your mom is happy to be with our creator now… so hang in there and keep the happy memories of your mom in your heart....